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Friday, February 15, 2008

another place, another time

I still feel like my head in spinning, both from the jetlag fatigue and the total culture shock. I can't believe an entire week has passed since we boarded that airplane and flew across the ocean. At the same time, it feels like that life I left 7 days ago is so far from my reality and my mind. That's not to say we don't miss it. We miss our family, our friends, and all things familiar, but we really are in such a different world here.

The kids are doing very well. But then who wouldn't love going to the pool and the beach in the middle of February? They love walking to the little market or the bakery down the street and eating coconut popsicles on the way home.

I had my first Portuguese lesson today which was good as I'm a little overwhelmed with trying to communicate with people. It's been great having Matt around all week, but next week's going to be different story when he starts work again. My high school Spanish training is coming back muy rapido, which helps a little, but also somewhat complicates my ability to learn Portuguese.

I had a little melt down on Day 3, still plagued with exhaustion and a stark realization that my family is going to starve because I don't know how to cook anything here.

On Day 4, we walked to the nearby market where I went in alone and bought a few items without Matt's help or translation. That was a huge feat for me. I've now managed to make two dinners, and am finding more stores with more familiar ingredients. We won't starve after all. I guess if all else fails, we have plenty of fruit to choose from!

I'm doing much better and the rest of this week has been great- getting settled, learning the ropes, exploring our neighborhood, relaxing on the beach, and pretty much melting in the heat.

This is going to be quite an adventure, more than I could have ever imagined, but we're having a great time!

11 comments:

Laura & Paul said...

I am so glad you posted so quickly. We miss you guys. You are so brave!! I am not sure I could do what you are doing but, what an amazing adventure!!

Abbie said...

Mary, how are you? I finally found your blog! How exciting to be in Brazil!!! Gotta love the beach. I'll be back for more updates.

- Abbie White (a member of the 148th-er blog squad)

P.S. How long are you going to be in Brazil?

P.P.S. I really want to know how you like your stroller. We're in the market for a double.

Shar said...

Yay. We're so glad you guys made it there and are doing great! I'd love to go to the beach in February, how nice!

c.marie said...

Mary - our neighbors here in Istanbul are from Sao Paulo and the guy's wife probably has TONS of recipes you can make. She is a great cook (her husband is a greta eater), so I will see if she can email you a few suggestions. Her English is so-so -- maybe you guys cna email back in forth in English and Portguese and practice some language learning. I am going to give her your email address.

Let me know if you need any "settling in" advice. Cooking took us 2-3 mths to nail down, and I still find myself going back to my old favorites because I can't think of what to cook. Good luck out there!

staci baker said...

Wow! You ARE a brave woman! What a stressful adventure. I'm glad the traveling part is over. I can totally relate, as we went to a "new world" in the Cayman Islands. It was so foreign to me and overwhelming at first! I felt like I couldn't speak the language, although it was English, because their Caribbean accents were so thick! You are a trooper. I know it will get better. It did for me. You might not believe it now, but you'll probably grow to love the people and style so much that it will be hard to leave! It just takes some time to get to that point, though! Hang in there!

Suzy said...

Mary: Your stories are bringing back so many memories of our adventure in Romania. The shopping definitely took some time to get used to. I think we ate bread and eggs for about 2 weeks before we figured things out. Hang in there - things will better!!

Mandi said...

You made it!!! You are so adventurous and I can't wait to hear all about it out there- good luck and have fun!

Lauren said...

Mary,

You are one brave girl! You will come out of this so much stronger and this will be such a fun adventure for your family that you'll always cherish. Hang in there, everything gets easier with time.

Love Lauren Castro

Melanie said...

Mary-

You're my HERO! Not only do you travel far and wide, but you manage to have mulitple birthday parties for all the kids!Loved all the posts!Look forward to more! Glad you made it there safely!

Real Life Roberts said...

Thanks for being so candid!! If it makes you feel any better, my brother is in the Southern most part of Brazil in Porto Alegre and he gets laughed at every time he tries to speak with a native! Just laugh it off! you're such a great sport! I'm almost jealous of this fun adventure you are on!

Kristin said...

Oh, I want your problems.